



Remote work is on the rise. Here at MetaLab, if you're not working from our Canadian headquarters, you're dialing in remotely from anywhere in the world. Remote culture has always been part of our DNA, and we’re not the only ones (we see you, Trello, Buffer, Dribbble and We Work Remotely!).
This post is the first from our series, "Making Remote Work Work," where we take a closer look at what remote work means to us and why it’s the most challenging arrangement we could never live without.
Hi. My name is Danielle.
I’m a content strategist at MetaLab. This is a story about assuming I’d hate working remotely, then proving myself wrong.
I come bearing no buttoned-up, neat-and-tidy conclusion for you to take with you. Because that’s the thing about remote work (and pretty much everything else, if we’re being honest): it’s not black and white, right or wrong, good or bad. It’s personal.
I do my best to lay out the benefits and challenges of my experience, but ultimately, the viability of remote work will vary from person to person, context to context.
So while you’ll be left empty-handed in the absolutes department, you might get inspired to consider how this new way of working may—or may not—work for you. It’s just one perspective, a little food for thought, and the opening of a conversation that we want to have more of with each other, and hopefully, with you, too.
How I got into remote work
When it comes to my career, I’ve always lusted after the professional clarity that doctors, lawyers, and “everybody except me” seemed to possess.
As a soft-skilled, soft-spoken writer with an uncanny ability to sell herself short, I navigated through the first five years of post-grad not by seeking out what felt fulfilling, but rather by moving away from what didn’t. It proved easier to identify my next career move via this process of elimination while I waited with bated breath for my greater purpose to reveal itself. (Spoiler alert: I’m still waiting).
To me, working remotely meant trading community for solitary confinement. No, thank you.
However, it was through this reverse wayfinding that I’m finally getting somewhere, at a company as curious about and invested in personal fulfillment as I am.
When MetaLab popped up on my radar, I had just quit my job at a big tech company in downtown San Francisco. It was the first time I’d left a role without my next one lined up, and to nobody’s surprise, I was terrified.
What was I doing? Would anyone ever hire me again? How was I going to stay relevant without a 9-to-5 job at the epicenter of innovation?
I craved structure and clarity, not freedom and ambiguity. But there I was, tumbling into funemployment without any sense of what was next. Enter: MetaLab.
They were looking for a content strategist, and a friend and former colleague of mine was helping source potential candidates for the role. She thought I might be interested, and we chatted briefly about the kind of a place MetaLab was, and how closely it resembled the former agency we’d worked at together and still fondly reminisced about.

It sounded good, great, even. Awesome team, interesting work, cool perks. But there was a catch. The company is based in Canada, so I’d have to work remotely. My heart sank. There was no way I could do that. I’m a connector; I thrive off of human interaction and engagement, I need other people to bounce ideas off of, to help me procrastinate, and to keep me on task.
To me, working remotely meant trading community for solitary confinement. No, thank you.
Still, I figured it’d be prudent to have the initial screening call just to reassure myself I was right. I’ve never been happier to be wrong.
The more I learned about the company’s values and outlook on work, the more I wanted to continue with the interview process. Throughout my conversations, my inner dialogue about the remote element was slowly evolving from “I could never!” to “How could I possibly?” to “Maybe I could...” to “It couldn’t hurt to try.”
So I did.
And while the offer letter outlined the appealing array of company benefits, the real benefits of what I’d just agreed to were yet to reveal themselves.
Before I ride off into the remote lifestyle sunset, let me stop here for a second. This isn’t my fairytale attempt to convince you that remote work is your cup of tea. In fact, it’s not even my cup of tea every day of the week, and I’ve had many open, honest conversations about that very fact with my remote peers.
(Because if I weren’t plagued by self-doubt, would I even be a millennial?)
What this is about, however, is what can happen when you challenge assumptions you’ve made about yourself and explore new configurations of the elusive work/life balance.
Assumptions vs. Realities
Assumption 1: I wouldn’t feel connected to or able to collaborate with my peers
As with any relationship, particularly of the long-distance variety, communication is paramount. At MetaLab, it’s a non-negotiable, and the mutual support, positivity, and culture of inclusivity permeate infectiously as a result.
Here’s the thing: there’s no getting around the fact that remote work is characterized by the physical distance between myself and my peers, who are spread out across continents and time zones. I found that the sooner I accepted this new reality, the easier it became to shift my expectations accordingly.
It’s not about pretending that communication tools like Slack and Zoom can adequately replace the feeling of shared physical space; rather, it’s about redefining what it means to connect in today’s modern world. Technology has transformed the way we work, so we have to get creative about how to foster meaningful, thoughtful, intentional, virtual connection.
Plus, it’s 2019, so the ecosystem of communication tools is rapidly evolving to meet the needs of the growing remote work community, both in terms of social fulfillment and effective collaboration.

As long as I’m connected to Wifi, I’m also spilling tea, exchanging ideas, providing feedback, collecting input, bonding through GIFs, expressing appreciation, asking questions, and debating whose dog (or human child) is cuter.
MetaLab also encourages us to speak up when tools aren’t cutting it and take the latest and greatest out for a spin. Regular feedback loops, standing meetings (both all-hands and 1:1s), departmental share-outs, and tools like Donut are also hugely helpful in promoting a consistent sense of community on a more personal level.
But while I try not to take this always-on virtual community for granted, it can be challenging to set boundaries and separate work from life in a culture that transcends time zones and traditional boundaries. So when the entire company gathers once a year for a remote company retreat, facetime takes on a whole new meaning and value.
Assumption 2: I wouldn’t take advantage of the flexibility and freedom enough to make it worth it
Not only am I in a long-distance relationship with my employer, but I’m also in one with my partner. I live in San Francisco, and he lives in England. Working remotely means I can visit him whenever works best for the two of us as opposed to what works best for my vacation allowance.
For me, this shift in thinking has been extremely powerful; the freedom of remote work not only affords me my relationship, but it suddenly renders the world wide open in a way I’ve never experienced before.
Whether I’m traveling five miles across the city or 5,000 miles across the pond, the idea that I don’t have to deprioritize my relationships or reverse-engineer them into my work schedule is nothing short of exhilarating.

I’d grown so accustomed to the physical limitations of showing up to an office every day that, even with six months and thousands of miles under my MetaLab belt, it still feels surreal to move about the world, on my terms, on a weekday, without anyone batting an eyelid.
Imagine never having to book a “doctor’s appointment” again! Radical, I know.
As Buffer points out in their annual report on remote work, this shift towards a more enriching relationship between work and life shouldn’t be so radical, considering millennials “value meaningful experiences more than possessions,” but we’ve been conditioned to feel otherwise for a long time.
I’d always had to work up the courage to request time off, feeling the need to justify my desire to dedicate time to things other than work. Now, in place of guilt trips and jealousy, I get genuine support and enthusiasm for the unique ways in which we each take advantage of our newfound freedom.
Assumption 3: I wouldn’t have the self-discipline to get any work done
Before this WFH situation starts to sound too good to be true, let’s not lose sight of the fact that with great privilege comes great responsibility. It’s been a privilege to work at MetaLab, and it’s also been a serious reckoning with self-accountability.
**It challenges you to decriminalize working according to your own routine.
Without the familiar structure and routine that I’d relied on previously, I was left to wrangle my own rhythms of accountability and order out of unbridled freedom. Six months later, I’m very much still wrangling, and it’s involved a lot of experimentation, self-compassion, and self-discipline.
Unless I have meetings on my calendar, it’s up to me to define how, when, and where the actual work is going to get done. Working from home—or the coffee shop, or the coworking space (or the middle-of-nowhere, England, on occasion)—is all well and good, but wherever I go, the work (and the responsibility to do a good job) comes with.
I’ve implemented certain practical practices to help lend a sense of order and accountability to my day; regular Slack meetings help, as do non-work bookends to the day to spur productivity and effective use of time. However, what’s proven most effective in this trial and error phase have been the squishier practices, like trying on different working hours and relaxing into the lack of surveillance.
It’s 100% easier said than done, though, and the most persistent negative feeling I’ve had the hardest time shaking is the guilt and self-absorbed paranoia that I’m not doing enough and everyone else is spending their time thinking about it.

Bless my kind, patient manager for trying to remind me that this isn’t the case, but it’s definitely difficult to internalize without the standard reality-checking markers I’m used to having around me every day. Granted, my torrid goodie-two-shoes past may be a contributing factor here, but there’s also a reverse-psychology parenting mind trick at play when a group of adults trusts and respects you, then simply asks for the same in return.
It doesn’t cure procrastination or the powerful lure of the snooze button, but it challenges you to decriminalize working according to your own routine and channel it into holding up your end of the deal—I want to do right by MetaLab because they do right by me.
Assumption 4: My mental health would suffer
Let’s keep the honesty train going, shall we? I’ve struggled with varying degrees of depression, anxiety, and OCD for most of my life, so my hesitation around giving remote work a shot wasn’t just coming from a place of watercooler FOMO. I was legitimately concerned about the toll it would take on my mental health.
Slack isn’t the Rx for the loneliness, but it’s been a sound step in the right direction.
Alone time is a surefire way to invite all the demons into the pool, and it’s complicated by the fact that reaching out for support requires trust, vulnerability, acceptance, and a whole host of other coping skills that take time to develop (especially when you find yourself trying new things with new people).
I’m fortunate to be able to see (and afford) a therapist I love, and, now, a schedule that allows me to see her in the middle of the workday. I’m also getting to spend more time with family and friends, cultivating deeper relationships and adding a different social dimension to my routine.

I’ve also discovered that when a group of people (in this case, my remote peers) are forced to have their own pool parties of darkness, it facilitates more openness, more quickly. The levels of compassion, vulnerability, and support that I’ve witnessed in our mental health Slack channel have been humbling and heartening. Slack isn’t the Rx for the loneliness, but it’s been a sound step in the right direction.
As the popularity of remote work grows, it’s become an important forcing mechanism for other companies to further examine and solution around the impact of remote work on mental health.
Has my mental health suffered as a result of working remotely at MetaLab? Yes, absolutely.
Has my mental health benefitted as a result of working remotely at MetaLab? Yes, absolutely.
It’s important to remind myself that every workplace has its pros and cons, but MetaLab’s moral integrity—most clearly demonstrated by its vested interest in creating a supportive environment for their employees around the globe—remains the most admirable and impactful “pro” of my experience thus far.
Working alone takes a village
The irony in all these lessons on successful solitude is that you can’t do it alone. Ultimately, it takes a village to establish and perpetuate a culture of “we’re in this together-ness” so that a positive remote work experience can take shape.
The leadership at MetaLab is iterative, experimental, and receptive, and that kind of unrelenting openness permeates throughout. Even our CEO works remotely—talk about leading by example! We don't get it right all the time, but we make sure to keep personal wellbeing squarely at the center of our collective list of priorities.
Don’t get me wrong: I’m still having to challenge the narrative about what work looks and feels like, and what looks and feels right for me. What I can say, however, is that I’ve never felt so empowered to get curious about my own relationship to the twenty four hours in every day.
Life’s too short not to.
Want to give #remotework a go? You're in luck, because we're hiring!
From the Survey:
What challenges are you facing today?
Most of our startup founders were primarily concerned with financial budget constraints, prioritization of focusing on the right product features, getting buy-in from stakeholders and investors, and keeping up with the constant changes in the market.
Enterprise leaders had a different challenge, concerned with the ability to get organizational alignment and clarity across complex levels within the organization.
However, the common challenges that both startup founders and enterprise leaders from the majority of our participants were around hitting timelines to ensure speed to market, available resources, and ensuring the product would resonate with customers in today’s market.
PLAN OF ATTACK
User Research
Talking to users to understand their needs, requirements, pain points, and how a product could better enable or change their day-to-day life.
Concept Designs and Prototypes
Establishing the underlying product idea and how it will be expressed visually. This includes ideating and designing the differentiators (more on this later). Then, testing those design prototypes with users to understand their reactions.
Product Market Fit, Vision, and Strategy
Determining a product's value proposition for a given market and understanding the widespread set of customers it might resonate with. Looking at the competitive landscape to identify competition and their strengths and weaknesses. Mapping user needs to business opportunities to create a vision, goals, and objectives that your product will address.
Product Definition
Identifying all the key features needed, high-level design direction, user journeys, and high-level happy path flows. This also determines the conceptual architecture, tools, technologies, and high-level operational needs to bring those key features to life.
Design and Development Sprints
Working in an iterative, sprint-like manner during the product delivery lifecycle. This allows you to focus your efforts in two to three week bursts, designing out key features and moments of the product, testing it out with users, developing those features, performing quality assurance, and then retrospectively learning from the past two weeks to improve.
Go-to Market and Marketing
A go-to-market strategy is a detailed plan for launching a new product or expanding into a new market. This helps you launch your product to the right audience, with the right messaging, at the right time.
From the Survey:
Where would you invest?
In our survey, we asked product leaders where they would invest most heavily in the product cycle. The majority of answers come in with Product Definition, followed by determining Product Market Fit and Strategy. Design and development of the product along with user testing took the middle priorities, and go-to-market and QA took 5th and 6th respectively.
Finding the right focus
30% focused on getting to Product Definition
We find this is typically the right amount of time to ensure you have an understanding of the opportunity areas and that your product addresses 1) the needs of your target market, 2) has a design and features that are differentiated from competitors, and 3) it will be able to generate your target business goals.
60% in Design, Development and User Testing sprints
The bulk of your efforts should be focused on creating an exceptional user experience for your product. This is where you bring the product to life and test that it resonates with your target audience. You always want to measure to ensure that it meets your needs.
10% of time and efforts towards Go to Market and Marketing.
Once your product is ready for showtime, you need to dedicate time to ensure it will reach your target market. You also want to validate that they understand its value and why they should engage with it.
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Differentiators







Domain
Experts





product
blueprint
Now that you have a strategy and your differentiators in place, it’s time to draft the entire product experience into a single document. This is a key step in the product lifecycle called product definition.
One of the key deliverables that comes out of the product definition is the product blueprint. Your product blueprint allows you to visualize the entire product service on one page. This helps manage its complexity, including the actions and touchpoints of all the actors, key features, technical dependencies, and operational requirements.
Behind the scenes, there are several key assets that power this product blueprint:
This view helps to ensure your team is aligned on the critical pieces of success.

That being said, it’s easy to go overboard with product blueprints, so don’t boil the ocean! Focus on the few critical features and components that will make a big impact for your customers.
Remember to trust in yourself and the research that has been done. Your customers don't always know what the right solution is for their wants and needs. That's why it's your job to consider their needs in the context of your product's potential and develop an appropriate blueprint that can scale in the future.
Skilled
Makers
We saw earlier that you’re going to be spending the majority of your time in the product definition/design, testing, and build phases, which means you need a talented team of skilled makers.
This may seem obvious, but when building the right team with the right chemistry within your budget, there are a lot of factors to consider. How long will it take for the team to gel? Do you stick with who you have? When should you contract vs. hire?
Chemistry is Key to Achieving Velocity
Too often, we see companies spend big budgets hiring a ton of great developers and designers. They throw them onto a project expecting the product will be delivered fast only to find the team isn’t hitting their milestones. Why?
Teams typically struggle to get going immediately because of differing working styles, personalities, mindsets, and honestly… sometimes ego. That’s why you shouldn’t focus on individual hires but on the team as a whole.
If you have time, budget, and desire to invest in the future culture of your company, you have to invest time to build the team dynamics. We find that it typically takes 4-5 sprints for a team to find its groove — approximately four months, or more.
If you are an early stage startup, and don’t have a lot of time (six months or less), but still want to get a product out there quickly, we recommend hiring a pre-built team of skilled makers who have launched several products together.
The key takeaway is to not waste all of your time and money hiring. Building a successful team takes time and cycles of members working together to hit their stride. When necessary, augment with experts to help your team grow, add a skill, or just simply to outsource a function. It ultimately comes down to how you want to allocate your resources.
From the Survey:
Hires vs Contractors
Industry leaders we spoke to prioritized Engineering, Product, and Design roles as full time hires (in that order).
Research and Brand functions to be the first specialized roles that could be contracted. There is no one-size-fits-all answer: this could work for those who are racing to build quickly and already have many of their market questions answered, but could cripple a team that is in the opposite situation.
With CEOs and Execs, the most suitable roles for contracting work are Research, Brand & Design.

Accelerators
Don’t reinvent the wheel… and don’t build everything from scratch! Accelerators are existing tools and technologies you can leverage or integrate into your product.
Accelerators enable us to get new products to market faster and enhance our team's capacity to build quality into the development process and focus on solving the most important problems.
There are three main types of accelerators we leverage at MetaLab:
Design and Prototyping Tools

Some of the tools that we use to help accelerate the design process to create and test out designs, concepts, and prototypes with users include Figma, Framer.io, and even Typeform.
SAAS Integrations or Cloud Platforms

For development, we use many different tools and platforms on our projects to help accelerate the product development lifecycle and build products that can scale to meet customer demand. Several of the most popular and impactful integrations and platforms used by our teams include:
AI Tools

AI is everywhere these days for a reason. It’s powering brand new ways to get work done and being incorporated into almost every tool we already use to make workflows easier. From content creation to scheduling, we are seeing tools popping up for everything. Here are a few that can help accelerate product development:
There are important considerations to keep in mind when using any AI tool in a responsible way. Sensitivity of data uploaded into any of these systems and the originality of the content is a big one.
Policies and regulation with AI are still being figured out, so it’s wise to exercise caution when setting guidelines for your product teams. Leverage these tools as inspiration or starting points for copy, as pieces of a larger composite for images, or to get as specific as possible with prompts in order to generate something unique.
Feedback
mechanisms
Product development succeeds when teams develop a culture of continuous learning. This is fueled by rigorous testing, analytics, and strategic iteration during key phases of the product lifecycle.
In the discovery phase, we immerse ourselves in understanding our potential early adopters' needs and motivations (see #validators). Alongside this, we work with clients to think through solid analytics strategies. This step instills a data-centric culture from the start, setting the stage for ongoing learning and adaptation.
By aligning qualitative user insights with a framework for quantitative data capture, we ensure the product strategy we craft will continually evolve to meet user needs.
As we pivot to the alpha and beta stages, the emphasis turns to iterative improvement. We engage early adopters in testing programs. Their first-hand experiences provides invaluable feedback to detect bugs and potential enhancements.
This feedback, bolstered by real-time analytics data, drives our evidence-based refinement process, prepping the product to be market-fit.
By investing in this cycle of continuous learning — persistent testing, data-informed analytics, and strategic iteration — we embrace a user-centric ethos in product development. This equips our clients to not just navigate, but also thrive.




When Ravi Mehta (former CPO at Tinder/Product Director at Facebook) was working on the first iteration of his personalized coaching product, he validated it quickly with a paid offering he pieced together with a number of low-code tools.
Leveraging learnings from a community of early adopters, he partnered with MetaLab to help enhance, refine, and evolve the product into the Outpace app.
Outpace launched earlier this year. It provides guided programs for personalized career development designed to level up with the support of a one-on-one AI coach.
Revenue
drivers
We are in a post-WeWork/Theranos era of founders promising growth without showing any profit. You need to ask yourself "What do we need to show investors?" Users are great, but how is this actually going to make money?
You have to show real numbers and an actionable monetization strategy. This means outlining your marketing and growth strategies — and the mechanisms that will bring in not only revenue but profit.
Revenue strategies can vary greatly, but the following are a few of the most common buckets of digital product monetization mechanisms:
Direct Payment
One-time purchases, subscription models, pay-per-use, or any other mechanisms in which users are paying you directly for access to the product.
Advertising/Marketing Platform
Revenue generated from 3rd parties such as advertisers within the platform, commercial sponsors or partners, or marketing and selling other products.
Commercialization and Licensing
Leveraging your product, or packaged-up data, as a platform to license out to customers for their use. This can be through licensing, white-labeling, or some form of direct payment access.
Ancillary Model
Offering a main service that customers find valuable and then focusing on adding additional features and value at a cost. This can be done through bundling, cross-selling complementary products, a freemium model, or, most commonly, in-app purchases.
There are many ways to monetize a product, and this is by no means an exhaustive list. The right way is the one that will resonate with your audience, so feel free to experiment and be flexible when choosing a strategy.
We’ve been supporting Modular with the release of their new AI platform and product offerings. Early in our engagement, they asked us to design a marketing site to help them grow and segment their sales pipeline. This allowed them better understand, and target, existing and potential users. We took those early learnings to ensure the product landed with their audience and supported their revenue targets.

The product lifecycle doesn’t end with a launch, it goes far beyond. Once you begin to get a better understanding of your customers and their purchase behaviours, it’s vital to adapt, being flexible with pricing, monetization strategies, and identifying unexpected revenue drivers.
For example, you may see that your primary offering for your SaaS tool is slowly gaining traction, but over and over customers are requesting access to an API for a specific data flow. You may be sitting on a large additional untapped revenue stream and there could be more. Meet your customers where they are!
Trusted
Advisors
It helps to consult the people who’ve been there before. There are a million people on LinkedIn who are trying to sell you a service or product that you may not need. There are critical steps that could cost you if you miss them. There are shortcuts you may not even know exist. Trusted advisors can help you navigate this and more. There is just no substitute for experience.
Find seasoned product leaders, designers, or engineers who have launched products in the past and will be familiar with the nitty-gritty details. They will have the perspective to help you find the forest through the trees. You want people on your side who can make sure you are spending your time, efforts, and money on the right things.
These are the Product Survival Kit items that we recommend to anyone who is creating and launching a product in today's climate. It's a mix of techniques, processes, people, actions and tools that we've seen provide success to many of our clients, colleagues and partners out there. But remember — each product is different, so find the mix that worst best for you.
It may seem daunting but it is possible to successfully bring your idea or product concept to life today. This may even be the right moment to go after it. Companies who launch useful and impactful products during economic downturns have a history of surviving and thriving. The next one could be you.

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Remote work is on the rise. Here at MetaLab, if you're not working from our Canadian headquarters, you're dialing in remotely from anywhere in the world. Remote culture has always been part of our DNA, and we’re not the only ones (we see you, Trello, Buffer, Dribbble and We Work Remotely!).
This post is the first from our series, "Making Remote Work Work," where we take a closer look at what remote work means to us and why it’s the most challenging arrangement we could never live without.
Hi. My name is Danielle.
I’m a content strategist at MetaLab. This is a story about assuming I’d hate working remotely, then proving myself wrong.
I come bearing no buttoned-up, neat-and-tidy conclusion for you to take with you. Because that’s the thing about remote work (and pretty much everything else, if we’re being honest): it’s not black and white, right or wrong, good or bad. It’s personal.
I do my best to lay out the benefits and challenges of my experience, but ultimately, the viability of remote work will vary from person to person, context to context.
So while you’ll be left empty-handed in the absolutes department, you might get inspired to consider how this new way of working may—or may not—work for you. It’s just one perspective, a little food for thought, and the opening of a conversation that we want to have more of with each other, and hopefully, with you, too.
How I got into remote work
When it comes to my career, I’ve always lusted after the professional clarity that doctors, lawyers, and “everybody except me” seemed to possess.
As a soft-skilled, soft-spoken writer with an uncanny ability to sell herself short, I navigated through the first five years of post-grad not by seeking out what felt fulfilling, but rather by moving away from what didn’t. It proved easier to identify my next career move via this process of elimination while I waited with bated breath for my greater purpose to reveal itself. (Spoiler alert: I’m still waiting).
To me, working remotely meant trading community for solitary confinement. No, thank you.
However, it was through this reverse wayfinding that I’m finally getting somewhere, at a company as curious about and invested in personal fulfillment as I am.
When MetaLab popped up on my radar, I had just quit my job at a big tech company in downtown San Francisco. It was the first time I’d left a role without my next one lined up, and to nobody’s surprise, I was terrified.
What was I doing? Would anyone ever hire me again? How was I going to stay relevant without a 9-to-5 job at the epicenter of innovation?
I craved structure and clarity, not freedom and ambiguity. But there I was, tumbling into funemployment without any sense of what was next. Enter: MetaLab.
They were looking for a content strategist, and a friend and former colleague of mine was helping source potential candidates for the role. She thought I might be interested, and we chatted briefly about the kind of a place MetaLab was, and how closely it resembled the former agency we’d worked at together and still fondly reminisced about.

It sounded good, great, even. Awesome team, interesting work, cool perks. But there was a catch. The company is based in Canada, so I’d have to work remotely. My heart sank. There was no way I could do that. I’m a connector; I thrive off of human interaction and engagement, I need other people to bounce ideas off of, to help me procrastinate, and to keep me on task.
To me, working remotely meant trading community for solitary confinement. No, thank you.
Still, I figured it’d be prudent to have the initial screening call just to reassure myself I was right. I’ve never been happier to be wrong.
The more I learned about the company’s values and outlook on work, the more I wanted to continue with the interview process. Throughout my conversations, my inner dialogue about the remote element was slowly evolving from “I could never!” to “How could I possibly?” to “Maybe I could...” to “It couldn’t hurt to try.”
So I did.
And while the offer letter outlined the appealing array of company benefits, the real benefits of what I’d just agreed to were yet to reveal themselves.
Before I ride off into the remote lifestyle sunset, let me stop here for a second. This isn’t my fairytale attempt to convince you that remote work is your cup of tea. In fact, it’s not even my cup of tea every day of the week, and I’ve had many open, honest conversations about that very fact with my remote peers.
(Because if I weren’t plagued by self-doubt, would I even be a millennial?)
What this is about, however, is what can happen when you challenge assumptions you’ve made about yourself and explore new configurations of the elusive work/life balance.
Assumptions vs. Realities
Assumption 1: I wouldn’t feel connected to or able to collaborate with my peers
As with any relationship, particularly of the long-distance variety, communication is paramount. At MetaLab, it’s a non-negotiable, and the mutual support, positivity, and culture of inclusivity permeate infectiously as a result.
Here’s the thing: there’s no getting around the fact that remote work is characterized by the physical distance between myself and my peers, who are spread out across continents and time zones. I found that the sooner I accepted this new reality, the easier it became to shift my expectations accordingly.
It’s not about pretending that communication tools like Slack and Zoom can adequately replace the feeling of shared physical space; rather, it’s about redefining what it means to connect in today’s modern world. Technology has transformed the way we work, so we have to get creative about how to foster meaningful, thoughtful, intentional, virtual connection.
Plus, it’s 2019, so the ecosystem of communication tools is rapidly evolving to meet the needs of the growing remote work community, both in terms of social fulfillment and effective collaboration.

As long as I’m connected to Wifi, I’m also spilling tea, exchanging ideas, providing feedback, collecting input, bonding through GIFs, expressing appreciation, asking questions, and debating whose dog (or human child) is cuter.
MetaLab also encourages us to speak up when tools aren’t cutting it and take the latest and greatest out for a spin. Regular feedback loops, standing meetings (both all-hands and 1:1s), departmental share-outs, and tools like Donut are also hugely helpful in promoting a consistent sense of community on a more personal level.
But while I try not to take this always-on virtual community for granted, it can be challenging to set boundaries and separate work from life in a culture that transcends time zones and traditional boundaries. So when the entire company gathers once a year for a remote company retreat, facetime takes on a whole new meaning and value.
Assumption 2: I wouldn’t take advantage of the flexibility and freedom enough to make it worth it
Not only am I in a long-distance relationship with my employer, but I’m also in one with my partner. I live in San Francisco, and he lives in England. Working remotely means I can visit him whenever works best for the two of us as opposed to what works best for my vacation allowance.
For me, this shift in thinking has been extremely powerful; the freedom of remote work not only affords me my relationship, but it suddenly renders the world wide open in a way I’ve never experienced before.
Whether I’m traveling five miles across the city or 5,000 miles across the pond, the idea that I don’t have to deprioritize my relationships or reverse-engineer them into my work schedule is nothing short of exhilarating.

I’d grown so accustomed to the physical limitations of showing up to an office every day that, even with six months and thousands of miles under my MetaLab belt, it still feels surreal to move about the world, on my terms, on a weekday, without anyone batting an eyelid.
Imagine never having to book a “doctor’s appointment” again! Radical, I know.
As Buffer points out in their annual report on remote work, this shift towards a more enriching relationship between work and life shouldn’t be so radical, considering millennials “value meaningful experiences more than possessions,” but we’ve been conditioned to feel otherwise for a long time.
I’d always had to work up the courage to request time off, feeling the need to justify my desire to dedicate time to things other than work. Now, in place of guilt trips and jealousy, I get genuine support and enthusiasm for the unique ways in which we each take advantage of our newfound freedom.
Assumption 3: I wouldn’t have the self-discipline to get any work done
Before this WFH situation starts to sound too good to be true, let’s not lose sight of the fact that with great privilege comes great responsibility. It’s been a privilege to work at MetaLab, and it’s also been a serious reckoning with self-accountability.
**It challenges you to decriminalize working according to your own routine.
Without the familiar structure and routine that I’d relied on previously, I was left to wrangle my own rhythms of accountability and order out of unbridled freedom. Six months later, I’m very much still wrangling, and it’s involved a lot of experimentation, self-compassion, and self-discipline.
Unless I have meetings on my calendar, it’s up to me to define how, when, and where the actual work is going to get done. Working from home—or the coffee shop, or the coworking space (or the middle-of-nowhere, England, on occasion)—is all well and good, but wherever I go, the work (and the responsibility to do a good job) comes with.
I’ve implemented certain practical practices to help lend a sense of order and accountability to my day; regular Slack meetings help, as do non-work bookends to the day to spur productivity and effective use of time. However, what’s proven most effective in this trial and error phase have been the squishier practices, like trying on different working hours and relaxing into the lack of surveillance.
It’s 100% easier said than done, though, and the most persistent negative feeling I’ve had the hardest time shaking is the guilt and self-absorbed paranoia that I’m not doing enough and everyone else is spending their time thinking about it.

Bless my kind, patient manager for trying to remind me that this isn’t the case, but it’s definitely difficult to internalize without the standard reality-checking markers I’m used to having around me every day. Granted, my torrid goodie-two-shoes past may be a contributing factor here, but there’s also a reverse-psychology parenting mind trick at play when a group of adults trusts and respects you, then simply asks for the same in return.
It doesn’t cure procrastination or the powerful lure of the snooze button, but it challenges you to decriminalize working according to your own routine and channel it into holding up your end of the deal—I want to do right by MetaLab because they do right by me.
Assumption 4: My mental health would suffer
Let’s keep the honesty train going, shall we? I’ve struggled with varying degrees of depression, anxiety, and OCD for most of my life, so my hesitation around giving remote work a shot wasn’t just coming from a place of watercooler FOMO. I was legitimately concerned about the toll it would take on my mental health.
Slack isn’t the Rx for the loneliness, but it’s been a sound step in the right direction.
Alone time is a surefire way to invite all the demons into the pool, and it’s complicated by the fact that reaching out for support requires trust, vulnerability, acceptance, and a whole host of other coping skills that take time to develop (especially when you find yourself trying new things with new people).
I’m fortunate to be able to see (and afford) a therapist I love, and, now, a schedule that allows me to see her in the middle of the workday. I’m also getting to spend more time with family and friends, cultivating deeper relationships and adding a different social dimension to my routine.

I’ve also discovered that when a group of people (in this case, my remote peers) are forced to have their own pool parties of darkness, it facilitates more openness, more quickly. The levels of compassion, vulnerability, and support that I’ve witnessed in our mental health Slack channel have been humbling and heartening. Slack isn’t the Rx for the loneliness, but it’s been a sound step in the right direction.
As the popularity of remote work grows, it’s become an important forcing mechanism for other companies to further examine and solution around the impact of remote work on mental health.
Has my mental health suffered as a result of working remotely at MetaLab? Yes, absolutely.
Has my mental health benefitted as a result of working remotely at MetaLab? Yes, absolutely.
It’s important to remind myself that every workplace has its pros and cons, but MetaLab’s moral integrity—most clearly demonstrated by its vested interest in creating a supportive environment for their employees around the globe—remains the most admirable and impactful “pro” of my experience thus far.
Working alone takes a village
The irony in all these lessons on successful solitude is that you can’t do it alone. Ultimately, it takes a village to establish and perpetuate a culture of “we’re in this together-ness” so that a positive remote work experience can take shape.
The leadership at MetaLab is iterative, experimental, and receptive, and that kind of unrelenting openness permeates throughout. Even our CEO works remotely—talk about leading by example! We don't get it right all the time, but we make sure to keep personal wellbeing squarely at the center of our collective list of priorities.
Don’t get me wrong: I’m still having to challenge the narrative about what work looks and feels like, and what looks and feels right for me. What I can say, however, is that I’ve never felt so empowered to get curious about my own relationship to the twenty four hours in every day.
Life’s too short not to.
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